Preparing Siblings for a New Baby and a Homebirth Experience
Welcoming a new baby is a joyful transition for the whole family. For older siblings, it can bring excitement, curiosity, and sometimes a little uncertainty. Preparing them thoughtfully can help create a calm, positive experience — especially if you’re planning a homebirth where siblings may be nearby during labour and birth.
Start the Conversation Early
Children feel more secure when they understand what’s happening around them. Begin gently introducing the idea of a new baby in simple, age-appropriate ways.
Use familiar language to explain pregnancy and birth.
Read books or watch short videos about becoming a sibling.
Encourage questions and give space for mixed feelings — all emotions are welcome.
Early conversations help siblings feel included and connected long before the birth day arrives.
Helping Them Feel Included
Siblings adjust beautifully when they feel involved in the journey.
Invite them to feel the baby’s movements or listen to the heartbeat at appointments (if appropriate).
Ask them to help with small preparations, such as folding baby clothes or choosing a toy for their new brother or sister.
Consider giving them a special “big sibling” role once the baby is born.
These small acts build confidence, pride, and a sense of belonging.
Planning for the Birth Day
Homebirth offers unique opportunities for siblings to be present, but thoughtful planning is essential.
Decide whether your child will be at home during labour and birth or spending time with a trusted caregiver.
If they’ll be home, assign a dedicated support person — someone whose only job is to care for your child.
Prepare them for what they may see or hear, such as your focused breathing, movement around the room, or midwives coming and going.
Some children love being part of the experience; others prefer a quiet cuddle afterwards. Both responses are completely normal.
Adjusting to Life with a New Baby
Once your baby arrives, siblings may need extra reassurance as routines shift.
Set aside one-on-one time to help them feel valued.
Praise their efforts in their new role.
Acknowledge their feelings with empathy, whether excitement, frustration, or jealousy.
These gentle supports strengthen sibling bonds and help your family settle into its new rhythm.
Your Midwife’s Support
At Birth Tribe Midwifery, sibling consideration is part of your personalised birth planning. We explore options for involvement, emotional readiness, and support strategies tailored to your family’s needs.
Homebirth is not only about where you welcome your baby — it’s about nurturing your whole family, creating a calm environment where everyone feels safe, supported, and connected.